My wife is lovely. Next subject. She goes to the farmer’s market every Saturday morning after breakfast. This morning, after breakfast, she asked, “Are you going to the market?” For rookie husbands, this is not a question. “Of course”, I say. “Right after I do the dishes.” This is a sign of experienced husbanding. I know that what she is really asking is; “when are you going to the market?” Also unstated, is the declaration that she is staying home to rest her sore knee, and since she is not going to the market, I should go to the market since our family must be represented in supporting our local farmers. The, “after I do the dishes”, comment demonstrates my experience in not only understanding that no question was asked, but that I deserve brownie points for doing the dishes as well. You can see how I am setting myself up for success.
It’s Not A Question?
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As a member of the local bridge club, I love the opportunity to advance in rank. The American Contract Bridge League has a rank titled Life Master. What an awesome title for an achievement award. “Life Master”. At 70 something, I aspire to master life. I can tell you it’s not easy. My blog is about my adventures in achieving life mastery, specifically as a husband and father; neither of which are easy. I’ve been a dishwasher, janitor, line cook, commercial fisherman, restaurant owner, food service director, and various other things along the path to life mastery. I’ve been a skier, tennis player, fly-fisherman, hiker, biker, lover of life. I have loved and been loved. Despite my stumbles and bumbles along the way, I’ve extracted as much of life as I could along the way. View all posts by rlt0958
Excellent Husbandry on your part. Might you give lessons to those who have not learned as well, or as quickly?
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